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To love somebody is not just a strong feeling - it is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise.

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When people can't handle God any more, they turn to religion.
Well-being is possible to the degree to which one has overcome one's narcissism; to the degree to which one is open, responsive, sensitive, awake, empty.... Well-being means, finally, to drop one's Ego, to give up greed, to cease chasing after preservation and the aggrandizement of the Ego, to be and to experience one's self in the act of being, not in having, preserving, coveting, using.
Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.
Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.
If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?
People do not see that the main question is not : "Am I loved?" which is to a large extent the question : "Am I approved of? Am I protected? Am I admired?" The main question is: "Can I love?
Happiness does not exclude sadness - if a person responds to life, he's sometimes happy and sometimes sad. What matters is he responds.
To spare oneself from grief at all cost can be achieved only at the price of total detachment, which excludes the ability to experience happiness
The affirmation of one's own life, happiness, growth and freedom, is rooted in one's capacity to love.
Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love