The aim of psychoanalysis is to relieve people of their neurotic unhappiness so that they can be normally unhappy.

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To achieve goals you've never achieved before, you need to start doing things you've never done before.

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As a general rule...people ask for advice only in order not to follow it; or if they do follow it, in order to have someone to blame for giving it.

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To have beautiful lips, say beautiful things. To have beautiful eyes, look at people and see the good in them.

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I don't want other people to decide who I am. I want to decide that for myself

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You can't change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it. - Nicky Gumbel

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I'm a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy. ― J.D. Salinger

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I have talked about choosing rather than acting from compulsion. When you feel that you have to live according to someone else's direction or live so that you never disappoint or hurt anybody, then your life is a continual assessment of whether or not you please other people.

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It so difficult to know what the people we love really need.

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I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. — Maya Angelou

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