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I think if I have one message, one thing before I die that most of the world would know, it would be that the event does not determine how to respond to the event. That is a purely personal matter. The way in which we respond will direct and influence the event more than the event itself.
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Your responses to the events of life are more important than the events themselves.
We need to see ourselves as basic miracles.
You have all played a significant part in my development of loving. As a result, my life has been rich and full, so I leave feeling very grateful.
The message sent is not always the message received.
Once a human being has arrived on this earth, communication is the largest single factor determining what kinds of relationships he makes with others and what happens to him in the world about him.
I am me and I am okay.
I want to appreciate you without judging. Join you without invading. Invite you without demanding. Leave you without guilt.
It's sad that children cannot know their parents when they were younger; when they were loving, courting, and being nice to one another. By the time children are old enough to observe, the romance has all too often faded or gone underground.
Communication is to relationships what breath is to life.
I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.