When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and arguments. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.

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They who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night

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One day you will ask me which is more important? My life or yours? I will say mine and you will walk away not knowing that you are my life.

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I'm a lover not a fighter.

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You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. ― Dr. Seuss

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It was love at first sight, at last sight, at ever and ever sight.

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Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop.

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To love is to battle, to open doors, to cease to be a ghost with a number forever in chains, forever condemned by a faceless master; the world changes if two look at each other and see.

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I am who I am today because of the choices I made yesterday. — Eleanor Roosevelt

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Love is a striking example of how little reality means to us.

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