Rearing a family is probably the most difficult job in the world. It resembles two business firms merging their respective resources to make a single product. All the potential headaches of that operation are present when an adult male and an adult female join to steer a child from infancy to adulthood.

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We can learn something new anytime we believe we can.

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People prefer the certainty of misery to the misery of uncertainty

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I think if I have one message, one thing before I die that most of the world would know, it would be that the event does not determine how to respond to the event. That is a purely personal matter. The way in which we respond will direct and influence the event more than the event itself.

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I have talked about choosing rather than acting from compulsion. When you feel that you have to live according to someone else's direction or live so that you never disappoint or hurt anybody, then your life is a continual assessment of whether or not you please other people.

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The greatest gift I can give is to see, hear, understand, and touch another person.

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There are five freedoms: The freedom to see and hear what is; The freedom to say what you feel and think; The freedom to feel what you actually feel; The freedom to ask for what you want; The freedom to take risks on your own behalf.

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The message sent is not always the message received.

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I want to appreciate you without judging. Join you without invading. Invite you without demanding. Leave you without guilt.

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Your responses to the events of life are more important than the events themselves.

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